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How To Save Marriage After An Affair

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Dr. Beam tells you how to save your marriage after an affair. What to do if you just confessed an affair. How to confess an affair but keep your marriage. Dr. Joe Beam discusses what to do before or after confessing an affair to your spouse.

Betrayed people want you (the betrayer) to know how much you’ve hurt them. They have trouble believing that you could grasp that, since you can’t fully understand- you’re not in their shoes. Show them that you know you hurt them by apologizing and not trying to justify your previous actions. The betrayed doesn’t want to hear any excuses. Also, when the betrayed spouse asks questions, do not give them any descriptions, because then they will start conjuring mental images, which only makes things worse. They only need to see that you know you hurt them and how much you regret it.

If you are asking “How can I save my marriage after an affair,” this video should be helpful to you.

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Moira Brown speaks with Steve Arterburn about his book, “7 Minute Marriage Solution” and why divorce is not the easy way out.
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Get Your Ex Back – Do This First After Break Up

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Did you go through a breakup and you want to get your ex back, if so, you’re in the right place. in this video, you will learn a step by step approach on how to get your ex back.

Step One is to Follow the Plan – Not Your Heart- This is the first and most important step because if your heart is broken and in pain, your heart is going to want you to do whatever you can to get that person back. The heart wants what it wants … Your heart wants your ex back so it can be happy again, right. And it’s your heart that makes you do things out of desperation…

That’s why you need a plan. A good plan will provide you the structure and support you need to get your ex back for good. It will help you get yourself back on track emotionally so that you and your ex will have a chance of really making it work the second time around. After all, that’s the goal. Without a plan, it is easy to fall into familiar patterns that could hurt your chances of ever getting him back at all — or getting him back only to lose him again. So.. the most important Rule is to stick to the plan.. got it? OK

Step Two – NO Contact – Cold Turkey
When it comes to a breakup, going cold turkey means you Stop Communicating, Negotiating or scheming to get your ex back. Cold turkey means that you do not initiate communication with your ex… it also means that you stop following them on social media. After all, You don’t want reminders of your ex popping up on your news feed and Instagram feed every day. And I know, I know…. Many of you are probably thinking.. why am I trying to break my dependence on him if I’m trying to get back with him. Well.. there are three critical reasons why you must break the dependence and go no contact for a period of time.. usually 30 days or so.

Reason 1 : The no-contact rule forces him to experience life without you. When you follow the no contact rule, you give him the time and space to miss you. This can only happen in your absence, not in your presence. And not only does he have experience missing you, he has to experience the fear of losing you.

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